Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Men not only love women, they also hate some things related to them


Men fear them, worship them, they love them…women. Men like many things in women that they don’t have. It is known that God first created the Men and then he felt that it looks so very empty, incomplete and sad if the world would be „womenless”.

There are a number of things that attract men towards women. Women are soft, delicate and not as rough and tough as men are. It feels nice to touch a woman. Women have the best laughs easing all the pressures in life. Women don’t usually take things as seriously as men do.

Men not only love women, they also hate some things related to them:

1. They hate contentious women because they are very defensive persons, who are always ready to pick a quarrel, fight or give sassy remarks. These types of women are very difficult to be around and to live with. They can easily provoke a man to anger, even to the point of aggression and violence.
2. They hate mothering. It annoys them to be treated like a child, although men love to be taken care of. Mothering includes smothering and doting on him – like telling him what to do, when to do it and how to do it: „Why don’t you go and get some sleep?” or „Go brush your teeth!”. Men don’t like to be not mothered, men like to be nurtured.
3. Men hate prying. Some women are better than some secret services. They interrogate, investigate, checking anything from telephone bill to receipt slips found pockets. They want to know who the man spoke to, why they were calling and what the conversation was all about. It may be necessary at some point to do these, but when a man finds himself subject to any of them, it really annoys him. Men like to be trusted and not feel that their privacy is being pervaded. Build a nest and not a net when devoting energy into relationship.
4. Nobody likes to be possessed, owned, especially men. Treating a man like a personal property is a sure romantic failure. It is very natural to feel a little pang of jealousy when he gives other people all the attention, but trying to control his interactions with others, may make him feel that his dating a paranoid. Paranoia is not very attractive, in fact it is very repulsive.
5. The Dominator woman is another type hated by men. If a woman comes across as a lady who wants to run a man’s life, she runs the risk of being dumped or completely avoided. No man wants to be in a relationship with any woman who wants to run his life. When she can’t accept compromises, she is a dominator. To change this behavior, she must learn to accept compromises. She must learn to accept the points of view expressed by others, especially those she claims to love and cherish. Let the man take care of his affairs unless he asks for help.



6. They don’t like clingy and neediness women. A clingy person is like a burden, emotionally depending for everything. It is like having to be responsible for their very existence: responsible for making them happy, glad, excited and pleased. They look to men to entertain them and get things moving for them. Nobody likes to be around this kind of people. Sometimes they even get to „emotional black mail”. They threaten to harm or even kill themselves if hey don’t get what they want- the wanted man! Men simply use, abuse and confuse them. Because they are so dependent on men to be happy, then the men use this as tool to manipulate them.
7. Men don’t like invading their privacy, checking their telephone bills and looking into their mobile, eavesdropping on their telephone conversations and wanting to know all their whereabouts. This is very obnoxious to men, making him feel as if he is losing his freedom. He will drop the woman instantly if he feels she is invading his space.
8. A brawling woman is another thing that men hate. It is better to live in the corner of the rooftop than with a brawling woman because such a woman is uncultured and uncouth. Most men love ladylikeness and love feminine women who know how to behave and carry themselves. Most men avoid women who do not have class and culture about them.
9. Men hate Valentine’s Day, clearly a day invented for women. Why? , what are the gifts of choice on this sainted day? Flowers and chocolate. What do men get? try to make a reservation at a restaurant that isn’t booked up.
10. They hate sleaze. For men, sleazes are just good for sex but when men want serious relationships with women, they definitely make sure they avoid the sleazy ones. What makes a woman sleazy? Besides a characteristic attitude, dressing in ways that are too revealing could come across as sleazy. Going around being overly flirtatious, appears the risk to be called a sleaze. If awoman constantly desires sexual gratification from strangers, she is definitely a sleaze. Based on the brief description given above, women can make some changes and gain the respect tehy deserve. They can start by wearing clothes that are not too revealing. A woman can still be sexy without letting your chest or underwear hang out. If a woman has an urge to get between the sheets with strangers, she must realize that she is taking enormous risks and could expose to HIV. A therapist is recommended in this case.

Men also want women to learn about some mistakes during sex: they hate when women act as though they do not like sex; they do not like women who never show initiative in sex; men do not like women that do not know men’s body; men do not like when women become sexual controllers in bed; they hate women who talk too much in bed; they hate women who do not like oral sex.

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